Studies show that women get stupid when they fall in love. But Why dose that have to be so true?

Why can't a woman's mind work like a man, and not give a damn. Or why can't a man's mind work like a womans, and care? Why do a man and a woman have the be so different. Why can't we just be the same but have different organs, and one have the child ... but both care the same?

I guess, that would make for a boring world, I guess that there would be no news, no event because everything has been done the same by each person. But I guess my point is why LOVE have to be so blinding ... for one person?

Why dose love hurt in so many ways:

A divorce
A loss of a child (those hurt the worst)
Knowing you might never be with the one you love
A loss of a grandma/pa, aunt/uncel

I guess this whole post will adressed soon, I'm so upset to complete it.